Successful people often say they always expected success. So you might ask, How do I learn to expect success? Maybe you’ve heard to act “as if” or “be” the person you want to be first and you will create a new reality…
You may also have heard to increase your belief. This can be a difficult task for even the best “believer”. So what’s at the root of belief in a better life? The answer comes from the root of the most common self-sabotaging thought…”I don’t deserve it”.
If you were to ask many people why they want a better life, many would say things like “my kids deserve a better life” or “my wife deserves a better life”. You are correct, they DO deserve it, however, one important person is left out-YOU! Do you believe YOU deserve a better life? This is the root of it all! Increase your belief that you deserve it and everyone wins!
This “I don’t deserve it” program stems from past experiences that have led us to tell ourselves we don’t deserve something…Real or not, we still seem to believe it!
Knowing how important this is, I will share how to get started right away to move from believing you don’t deserve success to believing you DO!
Make a list of why YOU deserve a better life. Really, think about all the reasons…You have worked really hard for a long time…you care about people… you have great value you can bring to others, etc. Make it as long of a list as possible and spend some real time thinking about all the reasons YOU deserve to win. Add to it as you focus on this list and read this list every day. This may seem simple, however, it is powerful!
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